Unbecoming by Jenny Downham explores family relationships, highlighting challenges that come when faced with change. The protagonist in this novel is Katie, a seventeen-year-old struggling with the complexities of a family where her mother, Caroline, is very controlling over their lives. The unexpected arrival of Caroline’s strange, forgetful mother, Mary, begins a major shift in their family dynamic. The theme of handling change is prominent throughout the story.
Caroline’s struggle with placing Mary in a nursing home acts as a major cause of conflict and distress between the characters. The challenge of accepting this change is shown in frequent and heated arguments between Katie and Caroline. The addition of a new family member, accompanied by Katie’s personal identity problems causes her and other great stress.
When I moved houses, we moved to the opposite side of the city, all the friends I had made and the places I knew were now very far. At first, I had found it difficult to make new friends, often I did not have anyone to talk to. However, there was one constant in my life, my family. I realized, we were going through the same situations, we were there to support each other through this major change
Citations
Unbecoming: https://www.amazon.ca/Unbecoming-Jenny-Downham/dp/0545907179
Change: https://compsysplus.com/nothing-changes-if-nothing-changes/





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