why is problem and conflict often times a result of peer pressure?
Peer pressure is a common thing amongst all ages from tiny 2 year olds that might not understand what other people even are; to 70 and 80 year olds who are wise in their choices. Everyone makes mistakes, but to pick and choose who you talk to and associate with is a more personalized decision. In alot of cases people want to seem cool to the others around them, this then leads to a chain in wich the people peer pressuring want entertainment and the person being pressured wants to seem cool by being all “ballsy”. This is a very common scenario when it comes to impulsivley stupid things that teemagers get up to. In the book “The 57 Bus”, the author shows this scenario in a perfectly described way in wich it shows the picture perfectly. When Sasha is on the bus sleeping and richard along with his friends are sat on the bus, Richard’s friends and him see an opportunity. From and with the pressure of his friends Richard proceeds to light Sasha’s skirt on fire with a lowly lighter. Once the whole heat of the moment blows over, the reprucussions that Richard faces afterwards are so not worth it. He is charged with several adult charges when it comes to the deeds that he did for no reward at all, simply just a laugh from his friends.

Amongst one of the worst social outcomes, peer pressure is a widley known cause of conflict in the teenage world. It leads to damage in friendships and in general individual’s lives. As having experienced it myself i know how bad it can be. Its like a slippery slope and youre at the very top, so near the edge. The people down below are trying to drag you down it and once you reach a point in wich its too steep to come back up, you are gone and lost. It’s scary, and for sure a large problem when it comes to kids and the societal pressure, along with the stigma of “Doing bad things to be cool”.

